Author: Vernon J. DeFlanders Sr.

U.S. Air Force veteran, retired federal logistics engineer, grandfather, and author of Teaching Kids Good Manners the Old-School Way — 104 reviews, 4.8 stars on Amazon. Vernon has spent decades studying what works when teaching children real-life values: respect, responsibility, and gratitude. He writes for parents, grandparents, and educators who want practical, old-school tools that actually stick.

School Shooting Fears: How to Talk to Kids Calmly at Home

Mother and son sharing a warm moment while discussing feelings

Introduction School shooting fears can leave children with big questions and parents searching for calm words. How to Talk to Kids About School Shootings Calmly starts with one simple goal: tell the truth calmly, answer only what your child needs, and remind them that caring adults work hard to keep them safe. School Shooting Fears […]

Houseguest Manners for Kids: Ultimate, Happy, Timeless

Houseguest manners for kids

Houseguest manners for kids can feel like a mystery—your child behaves one way at home, then turns into a tiny tornado at someone else’s house. Houseguest manners for kids get much easier when you teach a few clear rules and the exact words to use before you ring the doorbell. New snacks, new toys, and […]